trust?

Trust doesn't come easy. Everyone has that feeling about whom to trust or how much to trust. Every day we make choices about whom and how much to trust. Trust is such a valuable item. It takes a lot of time to build trust but it can be also lost in a moment.
Most of us don’t have to think very long or hard to remember the last time our trust was shattered. Once trust is lost, it’s very hard to get it back. Actions speak louder than words. Nothing seems more difficult to recover from then when someone whom you have trusted suddenly, and without warning, does something you didn´t expect. The shock of the betrayal of trust from someone whom you expect to be trustworthy, whatever the case may be, when trust is broken, something deep inside of us is changed. It’s not just that we lose trust, we also lose a part of our security and respect for the other person. We want to be able to trust, but trust must be earned. It takes time to build it, and a lot longer to regain it once it’s lost. I have learned the hard way that trust is not something you simply give away. It must be earned.